Joan Gardner writes...
One morning,
I woke up and found myself the USA Parent delegate to IPWSO with a life full of new
friends and amazing experiences.
How did this happen?!
In December
of 1968, our son Larry was born and by March we learned from a pediatric
neurologist that he had Prader-Willi Syndrome. Forty-eight years ago, there was no internet and actually only two
medical journal articles which Larry’s doctor withheld for several years
despite my complaints that we wanted them.. He was “afraid to scare us”! Really, an exact quote!
Somehow, as
energy had slowed down in the older families, Jim was elected president at a
PWSA of MN meeting that he had not even been able to attend. The serving president had just
discovered that his daughter had Angelman’s Syndrome not PWS (there was no PWS specific genetic
testing in those days). We began
gathering and networking our Minnesota families.
We had a pool of names and old attendance sheets in a tin box that
still smelled of old cigarette smoke.
Jim also served as treasurer of PWS USA for many years. We became devoted attendees of the USA
annual conferences where we learned all the new research and management advice,
such as it was at the time.
Still there was no internet.
Fast forward
to 2001, as complete amateurs, we are hosted a combined IPWSO and PWSA USA conference in Minnesota.
There were 1250 attendees: over 200 scientists, 120 professional
caregivers, 300 people with PWS including babies and adults (and required 100 volunteers a day!) and 500 plus parents. We had no
staff and little experience but an amazing cadre of volunteer friends and truly
expert international program chairs.
I still cringe when I enter the conference hotel but it was a huge
success and even provided funds to MN, USA and IPWSO for future
programming. We were very lucky!
Larry and his best friend |
Remember, if
you choose to host a conference, IPWSO will help as best it can to assist with
expertise and experts. One
physician even learned Spanish to be able to talk directly with families at a
South American regional conference!
However, IPWSO can only help as much as funding permits. As you balance your busy life, please
make a donation to IPWSO a priority if you can. Perhaps, you have family or friends who care about your
child and would like to show this with a gift to IPWSO. Right now, all new gifts will be
doubled with matching money from a generous foundation. This is an opportunity to help others
receive a diagnosis, learn how to care for their child,
receive information in their own language, attend a conference, or even put on a program for the first time. Sharing together is what has brought us to this extraordinary level in Larry’s 48 years. Let’s keep this going!
If you care to donate to IPWSO, just click on the iDonate button above. You donations will be in Euros and will be matched by the KB Anderson Trust until the end of this year. We are so grateful for your donations which help our work around the world!
receive information in their own language, attend a conference, or even put on a program for the first time. Sharing together is what has brought us to this extraordinary level in Larry’s 48 years. Let’s keep this going!
If you care to donate to IPWSO, just click on the iDonate button above. You donations will be in Euros and will be matched by the KB Anderson Trust until the end of this year. We are so grateful for your donations which help our work around the world!